Have you ever been out with friends having a
great time and someone brings up a couple you all
know and says...
"Hey, have you heard the news? So and so just got engaged!"
Of course, you nod along as everyone comments
"Oh that's great", and "They must be so happy".
You're thinking the same thing, but then it hits you...
Why isn't YOUR RELATIONSHIP moving forward? Why doesn't a proposal seem like it's coming any time soon... if at all for you? And why does just keeping your relationship going in the first place seem like a struggle,while other couples are committing, in love,starting a family, and making a future together?
And if that wasn't enough to make you feel awful... you realize that YOUR GUY who's also there hearing about the engagement seems to be
totally avoiding the subject.
Or worse... he's actually bothered and is acting uncomfortable just at the thought of commitment and marriage. If you know what I'm talking about then I've got bad news for you - You've heard about them before, but you didn't
think you would be with one...But you're dating a "commitment-phobe".
Maybe he's afraid of the idea of "forever". Or maybe he just likes the idea that even though you two may have an "understanding" that you are a couple... he still has his "freedom" and he isn't ready for happily ever after.
Or it is POSSIBLE that in the past he freely gave his heart - only to be hurt and to not want to "go there" again? Even with you? As if all this wasn't confusing or frustrating enough to figure out and to deal with...Maybe he's just a normal average guy who doesn't know what he wants. Let me ask you...Have you ever seen a man who you thought would NEVER settle down and get married suddenly meet the right woman and fall deeply in love with her? A few weeks or months earlier this man might have been talking about how he loves his single
life... and how he thinks he might never want to get married... or at least until he's much older. And then the right woman came along and all
that talk went out the window... as he seemed to be magically transformed into a loving, caring, loyal, committed man.
Was he lying before about wanting to stay single and not get married?
Or did something change? The truth is that men can come up with TONS of
reasons to NOT commit to a woman exclusively, and to not want to "settle down". But all the many reasons and beliefs that they have can go out the window in a matter of enchanted moments with the right woman.LET'S HEAR YOUR POINTS....